Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Carmen's Random Tips: How to Bake Perfect Cookies without Ruining Them

6 Tips to Achieve the Perfect Cookie!

How to Bake Perfect Cookies


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This is going to be short and sweet. If you want to know how to make perfect cookies you will be amazed at just how easy it really is, but one false move and mistake could result in disaster - a bad cookie

I messed up many cookies over the years, mainly from forgetting how long they were in the oven for...but let's pretend I didn't admit that, lol. Now my cookies come out perfect every time. I have finally mastered the perfect cookie and here's how...


The Perfect Cookie Tips


1.)  Follow your recipe precisely. If the recipe tells you to mix up your flour, baking soda, etc. in a separate bowl before combining with the creamed up butter and sugars, then do so. I made the mistake of thinking that I could just go ahead and add everything together after creaming up my butter, sugars, eggs and vanilla for an oatmeal cookie recipe that I have and that was a bad idea... So always follow the recipe instructions and before you know it you'll have it memorized!

2.)  Remember that the bigger the cookie, the less cookies you will make. That would also mean more calories too, if you're someone like me that watches things like that. Think about how big the cookies are in the bakery at the store or in the snack aisle. They're not very big, but they sure are filling.  

Although, you can find the large specialty cookies; those are great for gifts or to make for a special treat. To get the perfect sized cookie, take a small teaspoon from your silverware drawer, scoop out some cookie dough onto the teaspoon.  

You want enough dough to cover the spoon and you want it plump. We don't want big cookies and we don't want flat cookies, we want it "just right." So sort of pack it together and plop it onto your baking sheet.  

3.)  Make sure to space the cookies out on the cookie sheet, so they have room to expand as they bake. If you're making smaller cookies, do three rows of five cookies spaced apart nicely. If you're making larger cookies, do three rows of four cookies.

4.)  Every cookie recipe has a different setting for the oven temperature. Some require 375°F, some require 350° and some even require 325°. Whatever the recipe you're following calls for, follow it.  

5.)  Follow instructions for baking time. Most recipes usually call for 8-10 minutes. So set a timer for 8 minutes and start peeking in at them to see if they're almost ready. I usually let mine bake 10 minutes. If you don't have a timer, you can find a cheap one just about anywhere.

And remember that sometimes they may not look done after 10 minutes, but trust me, they are and you will realize that when they cool down. This adds to the perfect cookie.  

Sometimes people think they're not done, so they bake them just a little longer and that little longer can give you an over baked cookie. Unless you like over-baked cookies, and some people do, then we don't want that.

6.)  Last but not least, and the best tip of all on how to make perfect cookies, is to make sure that both of your oven racks are adjusted to the highest position. Place one at the very top, then leave a space and place the second rack in the third row from the top.

And voilà! You now know how to make perfect cookies!

Monday, November 26, 2012

True Meaning of Christmas: What Christmas Means to Me and My Children

What I Love About Christmas


Over the years I feel like Christmas has become very commercial and is all about material things. I love Christmas, but despise greed. 

I'm not knocking gift giving by any means. Buying presents is fun, but I believe there is a difference between gift giving and greed.

I'm sure Christmas means different things to different people, especially when it comes to people having different religious backgrounds and such. I'm just going to share what Christmas means to me and what I'm proud to say that I have instilled in my children.

My Memories Of Christmases Past

Growing up, life was hard. I was raised by a struggling and very hard working single Mom. Even though life was rough, she always did her best to make sure the holidays were bright for us. I am going to share some of my favorite Christmas memories...

Well the very first thing that I was taught growing up was that the true meaning of Christmas is about the birth of baby Jesus. I know that not everyone believes in Jesus and I'm not one to shove religion down someone else's throat, so I digress... I will just say that I have taught my children the same. In my home we believe in the birth of Jesus.


I remember how exciting it was to get out of school for the day as a child some time in November and noticing as I walked home from school that the town had decorated for Christmas while I was in school all day. I can't tell you how excited this made me!


I remember every year getting a real Christmas tree. The search for the "perfect" one and the excitement when we realized we finally found "the one!"   


My mother taking my brother and I around town after dark to see all of the pretty Christmas lights. There's just something magical about Christmas lights, especially to a child.


Watching my mother decorate the house, then drinking hot cocoa with my little brother while Christmas music played on the radio and we decorated the tree. Sometimes if we were lucky there would be a Christmas special on TV at the same time too!!


Watching ALL of the Christmas specials I possibly could on TV, especially my favorites which would be all of the claymations.  


My towns annual Christmas celebration.



As a New Yorker...the magic of snow at Christmas time...


Christmas caroling - I was lucky enough that I got to do that a couple of times as a child. That was very special to me.  I remember one night when an older cousin of mine was babysitting me and my little brother, he turned all of the lights off and turned the TV off. 


The only lights on were the Christmas tree lights. Then we sang Christmas carols. I absolutely LOVED it and that will always stand out in my mind as a very special memory.


Going to see Santa in the mall and getting my picture taken with him - always a thrill!


Baking Christmas cookies with my mother and decorating them. Then leaving cookies and milk for Santa Christmas Eve.


But my favorite part of all was spending Christmas day with my family. My much older brothers would always come to dinner and sometimes relatives that we didn't see much would stop by or we would visit them.

 

So...What Does Christmas Mean To Me?


Don't get me wrong, I loved presents just like any other kid. Presents are awesome. I'm not knocking presents, but to me that's just not what Christmas is all about. That's part of it, but not all of it. For me it's the magic.

Getting in the spirit. Being kind to one another (which people should do year round and not just at Christmas time), decorating, looking at Christmas lights with my children now like my mother did with me.

Getting to play Santa now as a mommy and seeing the looks on my children's faces when they open their presents. Baking cookies with my kids like my mother did with me. Passing on all of the traditions. But most importantly - family.

That is what Christmas means to me. The warm feeling of togetherness with my family and loved ones. Togetherness with everyone really...




Thursday, November 22, 2012

This Thanksgiving, I Am Thankful For...


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First of all, I think that it's important to give thanks every day; not just on Thanksgiving. And that is one of the reasons that I love this holiday so very much, because the emphasis is on giving thanks!

After all, the name itself is "Thanks"giving! Sure, it's also about turkey and having the biggest, yummiest feast that you can eat. And of course, it's about spending time with our loved ones and families.

Those are also my favorite things about Thanksgiving, but I think some people lose sight of the 'giving thanks' part. Not all, but some do. God already knows the things that I'm thankful for, because I share them in private every day. I am always thankful for the little things, because really, the little things are big things.

But here is my list of everything that I'm thankful for...

I'm thankful for my family, even though we are still at odds, 
I'm thankful for my children; they are my reason for living,
I'm thankful every day that I wake up, because every day is a new beginning, 
I'm thankful to be breathing the life that I've been given, because life is a gift,
I'm thankful every time my sons do something to make me proud,
I'm thankful every time my daughters look at me and smile,
I'm thankful for the warm roof over my head, 
I'm thankful for the food in my belly, 
I'm thankful for the clothes on my back, 
I'm thankful for my hard times and struggles because they only make me stronger,
but most of all on this particular Thanksgiving Day, I am thankful for a second chance at feeling alive inside again. I love this life of mine and I am so very blessed and thankful. 

Happy Thanksgiving!!


Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Carmen's Random Tips: Blog Layout Tips For Blogger Blogs

Blog Layout Tips for Your Blogger Blogs



Simple and Easy Blog Layout Tips


#1)  How To Customize Your Template:  First and foremost, make sure to "Back Up" your template before making any changes.  In the blogger dashboard, you'll see "Back Up/Restore" in the upper right hand corner of the screen.  Click on that to back up your template.  

Okay, so, you picked a cute layout but would like to change the color of the background, maybe the color of the header or maybe even the font?  Well, it's really simpler than you think!  You can tweak anything really, even the links.  Okay, so here's how...

First, from your Blogger dashboard, click on "Template."  It should be to your left on your computer screen.  You should see:

Overview
Posts
Pages
Comments
Google+
Stats
Earnings
Layout
Template
Settings

After you click on "Template," you will see "Live on Blog" and "Mobile."  Underneath "Live on Blog," you'll see an orange "Customize" button, click on that.  Now this is where you choose your template, layout, background color theme, etc.  

But this is also where you can tweak all of that when you're finished, if you choose to.  You can pick a theme and color you like and still change a few things after that if you want.  All you have to do is click on "Advanced."  

You will now have the ability to change the background colors, font size, font color, title, links, tab text, etc. for your blog.  You should now see all of your options.  Once you make the changes that you're happy with, click the orange button in the upper right corner of your screen that says, "Apply to Blog."

#2)  How to Center Your Blog Title Header:  This is very simple and will be short and sweet.  Follow all of the instructions above in Tip #1, and once you click on "Advanced," scroll down and look for "Add CSS."  It should be at the very bottom of the list, at the top you will see "Page Text."  Okay, so you've found the "Add CSS" section.  Now all you have to do is add this code to center your title:

#header-inner   {text-align: center ;}

If you want your title to be on the left, then this is the code you add:

#header-inner   {text-align: left ;}

And last but not least, if you want your title to be on the right, then this is the code that you add:

#header-inner   {text-align: right ;}

You will notice that the code is the same, with the exception of the word center, left or right.  If you center it and later decide that you want it to the right, just go into the "Add CSS" and change the word center to right and walla, that's it!  You're done!  Always make sure to click the orange button in the upper right hand corner that says, "Apply to Blog," so that your changes are saved. 

#3)  How to Add a Picture to Your Blog Title:  Now this part can be both simple and tricky, it all depends on what you are doing with the picture that you're adding.  From the Blogger Template Designer, which is where we just centered your blog title and customized everything, you're going to now click on "Layout."  You will see "Layout" above the "Advanced" option.  

So, click on "Layout."  Below the "Blogger Template Designer," you'll see your blog broken up into sections for you to edit.  At the very top is your "Blog Title," click edit on that section.  Now this is where you will add a picture to the background of your title if you choose to.  You can use a picture instead of a title, you can place a picture behind the title.  

Once in this screen, you can figure out which is best for you.  After you've added your picture, you can then also decide if you need to re-do your title.  Maybe you'll want it to the right now, and so on.  What became complicated for me was that I wanted one picture for each side of my blog title.  So I saved a picture to my computer that I liked and wanted to use in my title.  

Then I downloaded IrfanView for free, which is a program where you can basically play with photos.  This was where I shrunk my photos and created an image with one to the left and one to the right.  I also had to make sure the photo was the size of my blogger header when sizing it.  Then I added the photo behind my title and I haven't changed it since.  I think it's really cute. 

#4)  Before You Create Pages Using Labels:  The first thing that you have to do before you get started is to decide where you want your labels to appear on your home page.  Do you want them off to the right or up on top?  To make that change, again go to your blogger dashboard.  

Select "Layout" and choose where you would like to add your Labels Gadget.  Once you have added your Labels Gadget, you can leave it blank or you can give it a name.  For example, you could call it "Pages."  It's really that simple.  Click to Save and you're done.


#5)  How to Create Pages Using Labels:  If you are here, then you have come to the realization that you can not add new posts to blogger pages and you would like to be able to do that.  Well, you are not going to believe how very simple this is.  Are you ready?  All you do is this.  

Suppose you just created a "New Post," in your new post before you make it live, you will see to the right of the screen a section titled "Labels."  Click in there.  Now this is where you add your key words that you want people to find you with in the search engines, but this is also where you can create a "page."  

Suppose you want to make a page for "Blog Tips," so you would add "Blog Tips" to your "Labels" section that I just directed you to.  Click "Done" and your label is now saved.  Save the changes in your new blog post.  

You will have to publish the post in order for it to show up in your new page that you have now created.  But you're not done yet.  There's a couple of more things that you have to do.  Go back to your blogger dashboard where you again see:

Overview
Posts
Pages
Comments
Google+
Stats
Earnings
Layout
Template
Settings

Click on "Layout" this time.  When you see the "Labels" section, click "Edit."  Now you're in the "Configure Labels" screen, which is a little pop up box that should have just popped up in front of you.  You will see "All Labels" and "Selected Labels," make sure that you have selected "Selected Labels" and not "All Labels."  

Directly beneath "Selected Labels," you will see the number of labels that you have and you will also see the option to edit those labels.  So click on "Edit."  Now, remember we're imagining that we're creating a "Blog Tips" page/label, so in your selection of labels, you would check off "Blog Tips."  Remember to only select labels that you want to create pages with.  

Anything that you check off here, would show up on your home page and appear to be a page.  Also check off "By Frequency" and "List," then uncheck the box that says, "Show number of posts per label."  Okay, so directly beneath this list of labels that you are now done with, click on "Done."  Always make sure to click on "Done" before you save, or else it won't save correctly.  I've done this, so I know lol.  And that's it, you've just created a page!  

So, from then on out in the future when you wanted to add a post to this new page, this is what you would do... It's simple because you've already done the work to create the actual page.  Go to the "New Post" screen again.  You have finished your post and are ready to add it to your page, so off to the right hand section of your screen again where you see "Labels," you click on that.  

Choose the page you are looking for, along with any other key words that you'd like to add.  Again, let's say the page is "Blog Tips," you would select "Blog Tips," then save and publish your new post.  Now when you click on "Blog Tips" from your home page, you will see all of your posts that are labeled "Blog Tips!"

#6)  How to Create a Page That Automatically Redirects People to Another Web Address:  In your blogger dashboard you will see this again:

Overview
Posts
Pages
Comments
Google+
Stats
Earnings
Layout
Template
Settings

Click on "Pages."  Now, where you see the option of creating a "New Page," click on the arrow within that box and a little drop down menu should appear.  You will have the choice of creating a "blank document" or a "web address" where you can send readers to another web address.  Click on "web address."  

Now you will have a little window open up where you have to add the "Page Title" and the "Web Address."  The web address section is self explanatory, that's the website that you want readers to be redirected to.  

In the page title section, choose a title that suits the website that you are directing them to.  If it's a business, put the business name.  If it's a place where people can learn more about you, put "About Me."  The choice is yours, click save and voila, you're done!

I hope you find these blog layout tips to be helpful and best of luck with your blogs!

Monday, November 12, 2012

Selena Gomez Weight Gain - Lady Gaga's Weight Gain - My Thoughts

When a Celebrity Gains Weight

The Pressure to be Thin and Perfect

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So I find myself thinking lately about something disturbing with Disney child stars that I've begun to notice. Okay, first of all many of them end up future train wrecks, but lately I was noticing that Selena Gomez has gained a "little" weight and people are taking notice around the web.

The girl has gained maybe 10-15 pounds; her face is a little rounder but she is far from being over weight
. She still looks skinny if you ask me, just a healthier weight. People are calling the girl "fat." Insanity... This world is so confusing and I've said it before to people I know...

The Problem with the World's View on Weight Gain and Weight Loss


We complain that the entertainment industry, etc. is sending a message to young girls and women that you have to be stick thin to be beautiful because that's all you see on TV and in magazines with the exception of an occasional thick girl or woman. But yet when someone thin gains weight she's called "fat."

And the celebrities that you do see thicker usually end up losing weight...most times, like Raven did from "That's So Raven" and our former little "Cosby" girl. Now she's being critiqued for her weight loss and people are even saying that she had plastic surgery. Her face looks the same to me, just thinner.

I don't think she had surgery.  People can really be so cruel and such haters.  Sorry to use that word because I hate it, but it's true. People who hate for the mere sake of hating are in fact...dun, dun, dun...haters.

I think what it is with Selena is that people are used to seeing her about 80-90 pounds soaking wet and now she's about 100 pounds soaking wet, lol. Maybe if people were used to seeing her a healthy weight they wouldn't have much to say, eh?

The Pressure of Fame?


It really blows my mind how cruel people can be. So what I'm noticing is a trend with these Disney stars and it really makes you wonder...hmm. Are they forced to be so thin to be famous? Because as soon as they're unleashed from Disney they put on a little weight and/or start getting reckless and also seem to start rebelling. Not all do, but many.

I personally think they lose their childhood and try to make up for it when they're "free." So the whole weight thing brings me to...you'll never believe...Lady Gaga! I found out yesterday that she has gained an astonishing 25 pounds and she really looks so different. Her fans found out when she went on tour and now she's trying to diet to lose the weight.

She said her father opened an Italian restaurant here in NY and that has been her downfall because of all the good Italian food (yum). And now the girl is getting judged and slammed by critics. I "think" I read that she was threatened by her label to lose weight.

Final Thoughts


I should add that I know that Lady Gaga was not a Disney child star, but I just felt like mentioning her because of the whole "Lady Gaga's weight gain" thing that's trending all over the internet as well right now. It's always nice to see that these people are just human like the rest of us... They struggle with the same things.

They appear to be perfect, but really they work hard to appear perfect. Nothing comes easy in this world; not even looking good. Which, by the way, I think they're both beautiful regardless!

And PS:  I still love Disney. We watch Disney every night. I'm just finding it disturbing that most of these girls are so thin on these shows, then as soon as they leave they gain weight and/or rebel in some way or another.  It just really makes you wonder...

Sunday, November 11, 2012

Veterans Day: For Our Soldiers of Past and Present

Thank you to the veterans of the past and the soldiers of the present. Your services are much appreciated and will never be forgotten.

Thursday, November 8, 2012

No Snow for Me

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So we were supposed to get this big snow storm yesterday; a noreaster to be precise but it was another dud for my area. I am so not complaining about that.

In fact, I'm happy but I'm sure a lot of the kids weren't happy here, muahaha! They sent the kids home around 12-to-1 pm yesterday afternoon expecting inclement weather, which never seemed to arrive.

It flurried a little bit around 6pm or so but did not stick. The wind picked up - it was definitely windy last night and it's still windy today but no accumulation - no snow and the kids all had school today.  

I hope the snow holds off until December! That's what I'm used to. I know we've had years here in the Hudson Valley where it sometimes snows in November, but most times it usually holds off until after Thanksgiving. When I was a kid, I loved the snow. Now - not so much, lol.  

I think it looks pretty when it first falls, but driving in it, walking in it and cleaning up after it has taken most of the magic about snow away from me. Okay, not completely. I still enjoy getting snowed in sometimes. It depends on what I have going on in life.  

If it snows when I have nothing to do outside of the house, then I can sit home and enjoy the view with the expectation that I'll have to shovel when it's all over, of course. Shoveling is good exercise by the way.  :D

Right now I find myself really starting to think about Thanksgiving. It's only a couple of weeks away. I've got my mind on my turkey and my turkey on my mind. :D I love the holidays...

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 To be continued...